{"componentChunkName":"component---src-templates-blog-post-template-js","path":"/ko/blog/3-month-rule","result":{"pageContext":{"isCreatedByStatefulCreatePages":false,"lang":{"slug":"ko","title":{"a":"한국의 최고의","b":"퀴어 여셩을 위한","c":"데이팅 앱"},"title2":{"a":"세상의 최고의","b":"퀴어 여셩을 위한","c":"데이팅 앱"},"menu":{"about":"질의응답","qa":"연락","contact":"앱스토어에서 다운로드하기","privacyPolicy":"개인정보보호정책","termsOfUse":"이용약관","reports":"Reports"},"buttonAppStore":"앱스토어에서 다운로드하기","buttonGooglePlay":"구글 플레이에서 다운로드하기","title3":" Zoe에 대해서 ","paragraph2":"최고의 레즈비언 데이팅 앱에서 여성을 만나보세요. 당신이 좋아요를 한 사람들만 당신에게 답으로 좋아요를 할 수 있습니다.  누가 당신을 좋아했는지 확인하시고 이들과 즉시 매칭이 되세요. 한국어지원팀 24시간 대요. 새로운 사람을 만나세요. 몇 번 스와이프 하기만 하면 됩니다.","noOfRegisteredUsers":{"text":"390먼 등록된 사용자들"},"rating":{"text":"4.5 별점"},"messages":{"text":"달별 보낸 메시지 1600만 개"},"contact":"도움이 필요하세요? 물어볼것이 있어요? <a href=\"mailto:help@zoeapp.co\">help@zoeapp.co</a>에서 지원 팀에 문의해보세요.","footer":"© 2026 Zoe. 우리는 당신을 좋아해요. 복제를 불허함."},"post":{"title":"What is the 3-Month Rule: 101 of LGBTQ+ dating","description":"The ‘3-month rule’ in the LGBTQ+ community is a playful joke about relationships moving quickly, especially in lesbian couples. It highlights how some may hit milestones fast, but there’s no set timeline for love. The article emphasizes the importance of communication and honoring your own relationship pace.","coverImage":"/blog/3-mo-rule.avif","date":"2024-09-04","authorName":"Zoe","slug":"3-month-rule","content":"You might have heard about the “3-month rule” in the LGBTQ+ community, but what does it mean? Is it an official rule? Definitely not! It’s more of a playful inside joke that some people use to describe the speed at which certain relationships can evolve. Let’s take a closer look!\n\nThe 3-month rule refers to the stereotype that in many LGBTQ+ relationships — particularly lesbian ones — things can get serious pretty fast. You meet someone, the chemistry is off the charts, and before you know it, you’re practically picking out matching towels for the apartment you’ve just decided to share! [Moving in together](/glossary/u-hauling), sharing pets, and dropping the “I love yous” might all happen within a few months.\n\nWhy three months? It’s not a hard deadline! It’s just a fun, lighthearted way of saying that many queer relationships can feel intense and meaningful from the start. There’s often a strong emotional connection that builds fast, and before you know it, you’re planning weekends together or even discussing future plans.\n\nBut don’t get it twisted—this isn’t everyone’s story. While some LGBTQ+ folks might find themselves moving quickly through relationship milestones, plenty of people in the community prefer to take things slow. After all, love has no timeline, and whether you’re hitting major milestones in 3 weeks, 3 months, or 3 years, what matters most is that you and your partner(s) feel happy, respected, and comfortable with your journey.\n\nAt the end of the day, the 3-month rule is just a cheeky, playful concept. No one has to follow it! The real rule is to honor your connection and communicate openly, whether you’re dating, falling in love, or just figuring things out.\nSo, take it easy, or speed ahead—it’s all good in love and in life!\n"},"canonicalPath":"/ko/blog/3-month-rule","alternates":[{"hreflang":"en","path":"/blog/3-month-rule"},{"hreflang":"zh-TW","path":"/tw/blog/3-month-rule"},{"hreflang":"ko","path":"/ko/blog/3-month-rule"},{"hreflang":"ja","path":"/ja/blog/3-month-rule"},{"hreflang":"x-default","path":"/blog/3-month-rule"}]}}}